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A Different Kind of Purim

For Mindy, simcha felt out of reach on Purim.

The chaos demanded her full attention. 

Kids running on too much sugar and not enough sleep,
endless traffic, relentless noise, sticky floors and fingers, garbage piling higher by the hour.

Everyone else seems to have this together… except me.

Despit...

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What Snow Days Reveal About Your Marriage

By day two of the snowstorm, it doesn’t feel cozy anymore.
It feels like the walls are closing in.

Snow days are Sunday on steroids.  Louder, messier, and longer. The boys are home too. Shabbos, Sunday, and now Monday.

The sledding was magical for about ten minutes. The snowman is dressed for Purim...

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How to Stop Being the Only Responsible Parent

Meira didn’t recognize herself anymore.
She was the woman barking orders, enforcing rules, counting snacks, watching the clock.

She was containing chaos. And her husband had a way of swooping in at exactly the moments that made everything unravel.

Just as her kids finally sat down and took a bite o...

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The Most Excruciating Way to Restore Respect

Toby was right.
Ninety-nine percent right.
And it was destroying her marriage.

They were driving to an out-of-town simcha.

The kind Toby had planned down to the minute.
Leave early enough to say mazel tov before the bedeken.
Account for traffic.
Get a babysitter and give her minute-by-minute instructio...

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The Marriage Problem No One Admits

Peri was ashamed of her problem.

Because on paper, it sounded like something every woman would want.

A husband who adores her.
Compliments her constantly.
Always wants to spend time with her.

And yet… Peri felt like she was suffocating.

She dreaded the compliments.
She felt panicky when he wanted t...

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When a Small Comment Triggers Years of Resentment

The comment was small.
So small it barely deserved a reaction.

“You always make way too much food for Shabbos,” her husband said casually at the Shabbos morning seudah. “So much gets wasted.”

That was it.

No yelling.
No insult.
No edge in his voice.

And yet something inside Tamar snapped.

How a Ti...

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How to Say “I’m Scared” Without Pushing Him Away

Ahuva lay awake, staring at the ceiling long after the house was quiet.

Her mind kept circling the same terrifying thought:

What will be with Moishy?

Their son had started drifting and changing.

Different friends.  A tone she didn’t recognize.  Questions that felt less curious and more defiant. ...

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Feeling Lonely Even in a ‘Good’ Marriage?

Elisheva sat at the kitchen counter, the chocolate still half-wrapped in her hand, listening to her husband’s voice through the closed office door.

He had been home for less than ten minutes.

The chocolate was thoughtful.
Her favorite kind.
The one he always remembered.

Now she leaned against the c...

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How to Stop Begging for Attention

Etty stared at her phone, willing it to light up with a message from him.
Not logistics.
Not reminders.

Just… interest.
Curiosity.
A sign that she mattered.

Etty didn’t want grand gestures.
She wasn’t asking for poetry or deep heart-to-hearts every night.

She just wanted to feel seen.  She desperately...

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