I felt lonely and frustrated in my marriage, but I also couldn’t pinpoint the problem or how to fix it. I know I felt very disrespected, but why? I really wanted to fix the communication between us. My negative thoughts became overwhelming, and traditional therapy wasn't getting to the root of the problem.
The coaching was different than therapy and super refreshing! I looked forward to my sessions. I felt comfortable sharing my feelings. I felt heard, understood, and she acknowledged my struggles and helped me overcome them by teaching me how to use the Skills. I brought challenges to tackle with her for the week, and my confidence soared as I overcame one after another. I started to notice subtle changes in my husband that slowly led to experiencing the fun, carefree relationship I had with him when we met!
This has been such an amazing journey!!
------ Nechama, MARRIED 1 YEAR
Married only a few months, we had already been separated a couple times and I was feeling lost and misunderstood.
Coaching with Shalom Bayis Agency has beyond exceeded my expectations and I gained so much more than I ever dreamt of. My marriage became the happiest most loving and safe place.
I wish everyone could get a coach - it changed my life completely!
------ Zeesy, MARRIED 1 YEAR
Before finding these skills, my home life was very sad. Although I was highly successful at work, I could never seem to create the family life I longed for.
Our home had no joy or laughter. We often fought, and our fights would turn into the silent treatment for weeks. Eventually, we would make up more from exhaustion from fighting than true forgiveness, so the resentment accumulated as time went on. I would cry, blame, and criticize. He would isolate and stonewall me. I often felt so unimportant and alone.
My coach is wise beyond her years. She is gentle, caring, and compassionate. There was always so much emotional safety working with her. She has a way of hearing the deepest areas of the pain that are not spoken. I felt light and hopeful after every session.
Her wise coaching helped me repair my relationship and restore joy and happiness. I began seeing benefits in my relationship quickly after beginning private coaching. My husband started gravitating toward me, and our relationship became more peaceful. I began to feel cherished and adored.
I have my husband and best friend back. I am very grateful to my coach for helping me create a safe, loving, and playful home for my family. I would recommend coaching for anyone looking to improve their relationship.
---- Malka, Married 21 years
Coaching has been such a great journey and process - it definitely exceeded my expectations! My coach has an amazing understanding of people and the skills. I am so grateful for all that she has helped me accomplish.
---- Sarah, Married 15 years
Our marriage had become cold and defensive much too often without the counterbalance of fun and connection. I was often sad, angry, and confused.
I am an experienced psychotherapist and have tried everything to make our relationship better with little success. I was getting my own personal therapy for years without being able to really shift the needle to a loving relationship where I felt cherished and adored. I had finally settled on my final diagnosis of him. I was sure he was the problem, and I would have to live with it.
I knew I needed private coaching to really make tangible changes. My coach made me feel safe, supported, and understood, and I could vulnerably share my deepest insecurities with her.
My husband is now warm and doting, never hesitating to show me he loves and appreciates me.
I would highly recommend private coaching to any woman who wants a safe and loving place to transform her marriage into the beautiful vision she has always wanted. A coach will definitely help light your way.
--Yehudis, Married 32 Years
I would come to each session armed with a list of complaints about my husband, parents, kids, you name it! I was holding onto a lot of fear and resentment. I really needed someone to help me find my way.
During private coaching, I received the life-changing gift of a new perspective. I learned to let go of fear and replace it with gratitude and joy for all the incredible blessings in my life. My relationship with my husband, parents, and children improved and deepened by leaps and bounds. I practiced and refined my use of all six skills with the support and encouragement of an incredibly skilled coach, and I will be forever grateful!
---- Leah, Age 31, Married 9 years
I felt hopeless, sad, scared, and very low. My marriage was as close to divorce as you can get.
After seeing firsthand how it changed my friend’s life, I decided to try working with a coach. I always feel encouraged, and my successes are hers as well. I have a real cheerleader applauding my accomplishments.
---- Kayla, Married 25 years
I felt resentful of my husband and hugely overwhelmed by everything on my plate.
When we first got married, everyone thought we were hilarious with our sarcastic banter. But as the years went on, the sarcasm stayed but it was no longer funny. It became laced with resentment and irritation.
I was lost, angry, and sad. My children witnessed our daily fights, and I was afraid we were doing irreversible damage. I didn’t know where to turn, but I knew on a deep level that I didn’t want to be in this cycle the rest of my life- that I wanted to be happy, carefree, and youthful.
A family member introduced me to a coach who changed her friend’s life. The coach made me feel extremely safe, validated, and heard. She gave me the space and respect to air my sadness and then handed me the tools to turn it around.
My house is now filled with the humor and lightness that I really missed!! There are new feelings of respect and trust. My husband is in tune with my feelings and generously prioritizes my wants and needs over his own. He is warm, sweet, and dependable. I am hopeful and happy once again.
---- Shani, Married 9 years
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